I missed 3 weddings!!

I have 3 cousins (girls) my age, all of us fall into a pool of birthdays within 6 months of each other.
I have missed the weddings of all 3. The first one, at the exact 'thali-tying' moment, I had stepped out to get my camera or something and came back to find that my cousin was officially married in the 60 seconds that I was away from the mandapam, which is sad considering I was with her 90% of the time since we entered the mandapam !! I missed THE part.
The second cousin got married last month and i was stuck here on another continent, seven seas away.
The 3rd one is to be married this Sunday and I am going to miss that too, my travel date back was postponed to 7th , coz we have a BIG release on the 25-26 weekend and "You have to be there for this release" and turns out, I don't have to be part of this release anyways.
So, I am stuck here for 2 extra weeks for absolutely no reason.
Life isn't fair is it?